Life is not an easy journey. I often think back through my journey and sometimes wonder how on earth I made it through. It is truly by God’s grace… I came across this list of 10 Conversations I Wish Someone Had With Me as a Teenager, things that I wish someone had talked to me about when I was needing it most. Man, we don’t talk about them enough. Check it out…
1. “You’re not the only one struggling as a teenage Christian.” I was certain I was. Surely nobody was battling temptations like I was. At least, nobody was talking about it. That was part of the problem.
2. “Let’s talk about pornography and lust.” I cannot say strongly enough how I wish a Christian man had cared for me enough to initiate that conversation. Fathers, waiting until you catch your teen in this habit is an abdication of your responsibility.
3. “I’ll show you how to read the Bible and pray every day.” I wanted to do it because my pastor told me I needed to do it. Nobody taught me, though, so I struggled trying to be obedient. No teenager should have to learn these disciplines on his or her own.
4. “God forgives you, but you’ll probably remember your sinful choices the rest of your life.” Had I known 40 years ago that I’d still occasionally hurt over my past sin today, I think I would’ve made some different choices then.
5.“Be ready for God to change your plans.” As a teen, I knew exactly what I was going to do when I grew up: teach high school English. God had other plans.
6.“Let me help you learn your theology well because you’ll be challenged often.” High school classmates respected me, but they disputed my beliefs. College professors in a public institution questioned my faith. I’m sure the battles are worse for teens now.
7. “Date only believers.” My experience is that more often than not, the nonbeliever influences the believer more than the other way around.
8. “Don’t be a jerk.” I was at times, especially when I thought I was better or smarter than others. I wish someone had confronted me in my arrogance then so perhaps I wouldn’t deal as much with arrogance now.
9. “Even teenagers die.” That’s morbid, I realize. None of us knew that fact, though, until a classmate died—and no one talked us through our questions.
10. “The choices you make today can come back to haunt you.” That’s probably even more the case today. Facebook posts, tweets and other social media options reveal a teen’s foolishness to others, including college recruiters and future employers.
I resonated with each and every one of them, and if parents and grandparents could grasp this we could help this lost hurting generation of kids that are out there. Trust me, they are HUNGRY for it and NEED us to have these conversations!!